Well thought its time to revive my blog again lol. Im going to do my best to blog almost everyday about my pregnancy..because id love to look back and remember..this is my last pregancy and baby so im really making the most of it..so far heres what i really want to do
Home birth
hypnobirth
lotus birth
water birth?
blessingway ceremony
BREAST FEED..very importnat to me..well they all are really
We have found out that im having a third son , im thrilled, whilst sure i wont lie a girl whould have been lovely but given the fact we have been scared witless that baby currently (or did at the 12 week scan) have a dogey value on his heart..the sex of the baby really really doesnt matter. We have since had 2 scans one was a gender scan where they couldnt tell us much about the heart..and the other was a very quick look to see the babys heartbeat at the consultant appointment yesterday ..both times the heart was observed to be firing on all four cylinders..so obviously fingers crossed at the 20 week scan on the 8th of april all will have cleared and the blood flow will be pumping the correct way. Yesterday was all fired u ready for a row with the consultant..who ive never met before ..or thought i hadnt (it turned out i had with keon) anyway he said " i see your wanting a homebirth" i replyed "yes please!" then he started quoting facts and statistics etc..but then asked me why i wanted a home birth what research had i done etc..i told him..he then replied "i can tell your an intelligent woman, whilst the "Hospital" whould prefer you to have the baby here , the risks of uterine rupture after a previous successful vbac are very minimal and its no less risky to have the baby at home than in the hospital"..so we wound up our session and he winked and said "GOOD FOR YOU"..lol..what a gent! So homebirth is back on..i told dave thats what i am having..i didnt ask..i told him. Told mum last night and she was over the moon..she had been trying to persuade me to hb as i was a hb baby and she said it was the best and quickest i was only a 2.45 min labour and my 2 brothers where over 48hrs each !..and me being me im having a lotus, hynpo and blessingway ceremony..why?? because id love the experience..and because well..quite frankly i damn well can and too hell with what everyone else thinks.
Been lucky so far just a touch of sciatica..no heartburn , although i have had terribly upset tummy right from the word go..no reason for it i just have to go anything up to 4 times a day , midwife thinks its just the hormone relaxin..causing it, which makes sense as ive not got any spd this time so perhaps its makinf its way out in other ways. Been feeling movements since 10 weeks and more kicks in the last week..unfortunalty i have a tilited womb so its not allways as noticeable as id like. We have decided to call our little boy Luke andrew avery..because well i love the name andrew and david suggested lucas..i cant stand that name but we where watching star wars and i suddenly said luke ..(as in skywalker)..so luke it is..will be funny when hes old enough david can say in a darth vader name.."luke i am your father"..anyway enough for now that was a long post lol..will be shorter next time i promise
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